Do you admins ever take a break from your websites/forums? I'm asking this because I'm just feeling really burned out & taken advantage of. I'm speaking to my friend who funnily enough runs my competition (we call ourselves sister sites), and she's telling me I've got to stop putting my site no. 1. I have two children & a husband & I'm constantly worrying about the site. The children are fine, but my husband is definitely suffering & this does have an impact on our family. She told me I need to take a break, chill out, spend time with my husband & children & start putting my priorities in order. Of course she's right, but how do you do it? She's told me to have at least a week off. But how do I do it? I have people e-mailing me for updates on listings, I have moderators asking me if something is appropriate. What do you do in this situation? I have 3 admin (one who's been with me since day one & he's not really a decision maker but I know he'd act in my best interests), the other is my friend & competitor who I'd have absolutely no problem handing the site over to but she has enough on her own plate, the third I don't feel has the experience. I just don't feel any of them single handedly could do it, but maybe as a team they could. Am I asking too much? Is the role of an admin one without holidays?